Simple truths we often forget :: Talking to Terry

19/02/2013 00:12

Sometimes we find ourselves running in place, struggling to get ahead simply because we forget to address some of the simple truths that govern our potential to make progress. So here’s a quick reminder:

The acquisition of knowledge doesn’t mean you’re growing. Growing happens when what you know changes how you live.
You can’t have good ideas unless you’re willing to generate a lot of bad ones.
A good idea without action is worth nothing.
Change is often resisted when it is needed the most.
Discipline is choosing what you want most over what you want right now. Read The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.
People seldom do things to the best of their ability. They do things to the best of their willingness.
You can’t change other people; you can only offer guidance, and lead by example.
Right now, there’s a lot you don’t know. And if you never challenge your own beliefs, the list will never shrink.
Growth begins at the end of your comfort zone. Stepping outside of your comfort zone will put things into perspective from an angle you can’t grasp now.
When you spend time worrying, you’re simply using your imagination to create things you don’t want.
It’s usually only as good or bad as you think it is. Most of what we see is only what we think about what we see.
Most of the bad things you worry about will never happen. Most of the bad things that do happen will have never crossed your worried mind.
Some circumstances are uncontrollable, but we can always decide how we react to those circumstances.
Those who complain the most, accomplish the least.
Whenever somebody discredits you, and tells you that you can’t do something, keep in mind that they are speaking from within the boundaries of their own limitations.
Every problem you have in your life right now is your responsibility, regardless of who initially caused it.
It’s not so much about finding opportunities as it is about creating them.
Having a plan, even a flawed one at first, is better than no plan at all.
What you do every day matters more than what you do every once in a while.
If you’re waiting for the perfect conditions, ideas or plans to get started, you’ll never achieve anything.
Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times more productive than doing nothing.
Putting something off makes it instantly harder and scarier.
You cannot change what you refuse to confront.
If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting.
The harder you work, the luckier you will become.
Kindness and hard work together will always carry you farther than intelligence.
Lots of successful people have failed as many times as they have succeeded.
Failures are simply lessons that help you prepare for next time.
To be successful does not mean you have to dominate others; it means you have to dominate your own potential.
When you’re worried about what others think of you, you’re really just worried about what you think of yourself.
The bad news: nothing is permanent. The good news: nothing is permanent.
You don’t have to settle. It’s simply a choice you make every day. If you don’t like your life, then it’s time to start making changes and better choices.
There’s no such thing as ‘risk free.’ Everything you do or don’t do has an inherent risk.
No matter how smart you are, you will make mistakes.
Problems, when they arise, are rarely as painful and hurtful as the process of fearing them.
Just because you can doesn’t mean you should.
Money makes life easier only when it’s yours free and clear. The stress of financial debt can change a person.
Screaming at people always makes things worse.
First impressions are oftentimes inaccurate judgments of a person’s true character.
If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot.
We rarely lose friends, we usually just figure out who our real ones are.
Being nice to someone you dislike doesn’t mean you’re fake. It means you’re mature enough to control your emotions.
If you aren’t happy being single, you won’t be happy in a relationship. You have to create your own life first before you can share it with someone else.
It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company.
Trying to be somebody you’re not is a sure path to self-hate, and a waste of the person you are..
Sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things clearly.
You can’t make the same exact mistake twice. The second time you make it, it’s no longer a mistake, it’s a choice.
Not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.
A harsh fact of life: Bad things do happen to good people.
Regardless of the situation, the sun rises the next day and life goes on.
Making one person smile can change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world.
Blowing out another’s candle will not make yours shine brighter.
No matter how many mistakes you make or how slow you progress, you are still way ahead of everyone who isn’t trying.
Life is short. If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.

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